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Nursing Conferences
Cup-Filling Chaos and the Unexpected Joy of Finding Your People
If you had told me years ago that nursing conferences would become one of the highlights of my year, I would have looked you dead in the eye and said, “Are you feeling okay? Blink twice if you need help.”
The idea of spending days listening to presentations while wearing an uncomfortable badge lanyard and trying to remember if Ballroom A was next to Ballroom J sounded like a punishment, not a pleasure.
And if you had further predicted that one day I would be lecturing at these conferences, I would have assumed you were delirious from fatigue after a double shift.
Yet, here I am, practically giddy every time I wheel my suitcase into another hotel lobby filled with nurses clutching their coffee cups like emotional support beverages. At this point in my career, nursing conferences feel like a reunion, a retreat, and a professional pep rally, all rolled into one.
They didn’t start off that way. My very first professional conference was the nursing equivalent of freshmen year of high school. I wandered around clutching my program book as if it contained the secrets of the universe, not just a schedule and a map that made no sense.
I didn’t know where to sit. I didn’t know which sessions were worth attending. I didn’t know if it was socially acceptable to take three pens from a vendor booth instead of one. I was simply hoping no one would realize I had no idea what I was doing.
But, even in those awkward early hours, something at the conference felt different. I was surrounded by people who spoke my language — who understood things like the emotional arc of a night shift or why a perfectly timed cup of coffee can feel like divine intervention. I left that conference weirdly energized and thinking, “Huh — I might actually like this.”
Making a Habit of It
Fast forward to now: I attend conferences the way some people collect passport stamps. I’ve been to tiny local events with fewer than a hundred attendees; conferences on cruise ships; and massive international gatherings with thousands of nurses weaving through convention centers like a parade of determined, well-hydrated ants.
Over time, this has enabled me to build a strange and wonderful global network. Now, when I go to conferences, I get excited knowing I may bump into friends from Germany, Australia, or the Netherlands. My social life is basically a United Nations of badge-wearing night owls.
And then there was New Orleans.
An Unexpected Connection
At that New Orleans conference, a group of us decided we needed a nightcap after a long day. This is a sacred ritual in the conference world: find a bar, sit down, decompress, and solve all of healthcare’s problems in one 90-minute bull session.
I ended up sitting next to a nurse from Oregon whom I had met briefly the year before. We had some mutual friends, but we hadn’t interacted much beyond exchanging polite nods and saying, “Hello.”
At some point in the conversation, I casually mentioned that I work in trauma quality. She whipped her head around. “Wait,” she said. “That’s what I do.”
That one sentence blew the conversational doors wide open. Soon, we were deep into the trauma quality trenches together: swapping stories, comparing workflows, bonding over chart reviews, and laughing at the mutual chaos our roles required.
By the end of the night, we were basically finishing each other’s sentences, like trauma quality twins separated at birth. If the rest of the group had left the bar without us, it would have taken a solid hour to notice.
Now we talk every week. We live in different states, work in different systems, and deal with different leadership structures, and yet so much of our day-to-day work is identical. Having someone who understands your struggles without judgment is a kind of emotional lifejacket I didn’t know I needed.
Embracing Public Speaking (On Purpose!)
In an unexpected plot twist, I’ve also become a conference speaker. I used to assume public speakers were born preternaturally confident, descending from their hotel rooms like magical academic unicorns. If I had been asked years ago to speak at a conference, I would have responded, “Me? In public? On purpose?”
But, once I dipped my toe in, I discovered something really shocking: I like it. Over the years, I’ve presented on topics including leadership, the wild world of event medicine at large music festivals (and the kinds of drugs people tend to consume at those events), and how famous deaths have led to safety innovations like the “Jayne Mansfield bars” on the backs of big trucks.
My recent favorite? Connecting lessons of sourdough baking to pediatric emergencies. (Yes, really, and I am not proud of how excited I was when I realized the analogy worked!)
Somewhere between researching weird topics and realizing that people actually listened, I gained confidence. Now, I look forward to creating my next lecture like it’s a fun creative project rather than an academic chore.
Of course, the education that conferences provide is valuable in itself. Conferences keep my practice fresh and evidence-based. I learn about new trends and improve my clinical thinking. Occasionally, I find myself sitting in a session wondering how I survived before learning the tip the speaker just shared.
Let’s be honest, though, a huge part of the fun of a conference or convention is the vendor hall — it’s basically Disneyland for nurses. Every time I walk through, I find some new piece of equipment that makes me want to grab other nurses at random and say, “Look at this! It’s brilliant!” I have seen incredible innovations in every conceivable area, from safety devices to stretchers to educational tools.
Filling the Cup
Yet, the most important part of nursing conferences has nothing to do with gadgetry or CE credits — it’s simple connection. No matter where you work, or how stressed or burnt-out you feel, when you walk in, you realize that you are not alone. The people around you get you, even if you’ve never met them. They’ve lived your rough shifts. They’ve had your tough days. They know the emotional weight and rewards of this career.
That shared understanding creates an instant sense of belonging, which is why conferences fill my cup in a way nothing else does. They remind me why nursing matters, why community matters, and why taking time to invest in yourself as a professional is not a luxury but a necessity.
So, if you’ve never attended a conference, do it. If you’ve only gone once and weren’t sure it was your thing, give it another shot.
You might learn something transformative. You might meet someone who becomes part of your professional support system, or make a new friend who changes everything. You might find inspiration, laughter, or new confidence.
Who knows — you might even find yourself planning your next one before you’re even done unpacking from this one.
NURSING CONFERENCE SURVIVAL GUIDE
A checklist for those attending for the first (or umpteenth) time
Before You Register, Ask:
◗ If the conference includes CE credits, are they accepted by the California BRN?
◗ Will your employer reimburse you for some or all of the cost of attending?
◗ Are there discounts available for early registration or members of professional organizations? If you’re in nursing school, are there student discounts?
◗ How will you get there, where will you stay, and how much will that all cost? (Don’t forget parking, if you’ll need that.) Are there discounted hotel rates for attendees?
◗ What are the cancellation policies, both for the event and for your travel and accommodations?
Pack Like a Pro and Bring:
◗ Comfortable shoes: You’ll be walking more than you think.
◗ Layered clothing: Some venues will be so heavily air conditioned that you might need a sweater or light jacket inside, but others can get awfully hot.
◗ Convenient bag: You’ll want something you can comfortably carry all day.
◗ Phone charger: Don’t be the one asking if anybody has a charger for your device!
◗ Refillable water bottle: This can be a lifesaver at the airport too.
◗ Healthy snacks: If you get cranky when you haven’t eaten, packing a couple of protein bars could be a lifesaver.
◗ Business cards, and a QR code that links to your email address or LinkedIn profile.
◗ Something for taking notes, whether a physical notebook or an app on your phone.
Plan Your Agenda:
◗ Identify any “can’t miss” sessions. Set reminders on your phone so you don’t lose track of time.
◗ Don’t overschedule yourself. Back-to-back panels or presentations all day can leave your head spinning. You’ll get more out of the sessions if you allow yourself some breaks.
◗ If you’re attending with colleagues, divide and conquer. Each person can attend different sessions and then share the highlights — very handy if there are several interesting offerings scheduled at the same time.
◗ Do a little research on the speakers beforehand.
◗ Plan to ask questions. Most presenters appreciate engaged audiences.
◗ Don’t skip mixers and receptions, even if you’re shy — they’re great places to meet and connect.
TYLER MCCULLOCH, RN, MSN, MICN, is an emergency department nurse and trauma analyst. He serves as president of the Inland Empire chapter of the Emergency Nurses Association, and is a past president of the California ENA.
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